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What does a loyal mate look like, act like?
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Do words convince you, promises, or certain actions that you are love?
How do you know when you love someone?
Does loving someone mean we trust them intimately?
Do you think about betrayal, evaluate how much you trust?
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What happens to love when he/she betrays you?
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Is that love gone now, is it damaged, wounded, or what is the status?
Do you ever trust again?
How much fear surrounds your love, the thought of love?
How do we evaluate our next mate?
Will we trust them unconditionally?
Is it an equation of risk, love versus the chance of betrayal?
How rare is real love?
Why are the divorce rates so high?
How many times has marriage or love failed in your life?
It is a battlefield.
Perplexed!
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Posted by Don't Lose Hope on March 5, 2022 at 2:33 pm
All very difficult questions to answer.
Posted by Marty on March 5, 2022 at 2:36 pm
Love and betrayal are part of our difficulties
What conclusions have you come to?
Posted by Don't Lose Hope on March 5, 2022 at 2:43 pm
I think you can never be 100% sure. You look for congruence in that person, see how they relate in as many different situations as possible, look at how well they form attachments bonds … but nothing is fail safe.
Posted by Marty on March 5, 2022 at 2:44 pm
Oh but I want the risk of betrayal near zero
Posted by Don't Lose Hope on March 5, 2022 at 2:57 pm
I think we all want that!!!
Posted by Marty on March 5, 2022 at 2:59 pm
😎
I know
But you know once you are betrayed things r never the same
Until I was betrayed my thoughts never went there
After betrayal that was my main fear
A relationship is not worth being betrayed for me
So I do not commit
Posted by Don't Lose Hope on March 5, 2022 at 3:02 pm
I can understand that.
Posted by Marty on March 5, 2022 at 3:05 pm
It is not a.good.solution
But the safest for.me