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I was programmed intentionally by my dad, he wanted his desires to be my desires, it was life and death, he beat me to make sure I understood.
He enjoyed beating me, making me afraid of him, he got a release out of it. Why would you beat me once a week for puking lima beans throughout childhood?
The pressure to perform held all my self-worth, he pounded that into me.
Some things could be worse than death in his eyes.
He demanded I be twice as good as everyone else, all my self-worth he granted me was connected to performance. I did not generate much self-worth on my own in this abusive atmosphere.
No wonder I was good, fear is a great motivator.
I did not understand I was a separate being, autonomous with my desires.
https://www.pinterest.com/pin/12525705203642314/
My dad did everything to kill my self, he wanted total ownership. That’s hard to comprehend for most people.
When you look at this from the lens of a narcissist, it makes sense.
His empathy centers are not working, the only thing he sees is the benefit he has wanted since I was born.
My dad failed, got his girl pregnant at 16, dropped out of high school, then resented the shit out of me for complicating his teenage years.
Having sex does not make you a parent.
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Posted by marandarussell on July 28, 2021 at 5:37 pm
Truth!
Posted by Michelle Denness on July 29, 2021 at 7:15 am
My father beat my big brother… so much emotional damage! Sending love to you Marty.
Posted by Marty on July 29, 2021 at 12:46 pm
Thank you
Yeah the emotional abuse is what lasts