More Symptoms: Changes in Relationship with Others:

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” It is especially hard to trust other people if you have been repeatedly abused, abandoned or betrayed as a child. Mistrust makes it very difficult to make friends, and to be able to distinguish between good and bad intentions in other people. Some parts do not seem to trust anyone, while other parts may be so vulnerable and needy that they do not pay attention to clues that perhaps a person is not trustworthy. Some parts like to be close to others or feel a desperate need to be close and taken care of, while other parts fear being close or actively dislike people. Some parts are afraid of being in relationships, while others are afraid of being rejected or criticized. This naturally sets up major internal as well as relational conflicts. parts do not seem to trust anyone, while other parts may be so vulnerable and needy that they do not pay attention to clues that perhaps a person is not trustworthy. Some parts like to be close to others or feel a desperate need to be close and taken care of, while other parts fear being close or actively dislike people. Some parts are afraid of being in relationships, while others are afraid of being rejected or criticized.

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  1. We are worriers, feel unsafe with strangers and fear the unknown with anxiety and uneasiness. We have learned that things happen to us and assume a defensive stance at best. We feel unaccepted by ourself and others.

    That is not who we are or even close. It does not matter how these things turn out life ends, we die. I am almost 60 now and it speaks powerfully to me when something grabs me now but I ask myself does it change the outcome, no, I am dying in the next 10 years or sooner with all my injuries. So worrying about any situation or person is a waste of time. Direct attention to where you want to be or go.

    No one can say or do anything to damage our true self. They may harm us but there are parts of us nothing will ever reach. Our parts can be integrated and life become more than before complex exploded.

    We have special developed skills like world war two vets. They faced death nd survived. They did not worry about crap they did before life came down to what was vital and that changed them forever.

    We have survived and it is our challenge now to be here and take advantage of the miracle of life of being able to take breaths.
    We do not have to win or even compete we need to just be here and be aware of now. We all are capable in time to reach a clm place or try until we do.

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